Natasha at Dangerous Curves has just put me onto her online store. If you’ve got curves and in need of a vintage dress to fill then you need to go visit. She stocks beautiful dresses sizes 14-24.
And while you’re there take a look at the curvy bombshells page. Which bombshell would you add? I’m thinking maybe Beyonce back in her bootilicious days.
So after the absolutely fantastically amazingly vicious bout between Smash Malice and Brutal Pageant on Saturday (Hadyn has a good write-up and pics of it), it’s time for the girls to voltronise themselves together to form Richter City (woo!) to take on Auckland’s Pirate City Rollers (boo hiss!). The match is on December 5, and you’ve got to be there. Along with making signs, we’re hoping y’all will join us in dressing in orange and purple to show your support. How rad would it be if the whole audience did it? Here’s what I’d be wearing, if someone else was paying:
Remember how we gave you suggestions about what to wear to Skate of Emergency? Turns out some of youse guys really took our advice to heart. I will suggest that if you want to see really good photos & action shots you go look at Jed’s, but if you want to see hott girls and hott outfits taken by me, then keep on reading.
I’ve written before about how much I love the doodles in Frankie mag, and also how much I love the people who post to the Fatshionista Livejournal communtiy. So imagine my joy when I found someone who combined the two, and who has a lot of things to say – and owns the dress of my dreams. Meet Natalie, and please feel free to buy me some of her prints!
1. Can you tell us about how you became a freelance designer? And what does your average day consist of?
I had been an in-house graphic designer for a couple of years, and a number of things (including stress and work related RSI) brought me to the conclusion that I’d probably be happier having a break and doing my own thing. I’m very lucky to have a supportive husband who thinks I’m incredible, and he’s been so awesome and understanding! I started out doing very typical graphic design for print, but this year I decided that I’d like to fully integrate my own illustrative style with graphic design. It was a pretty risky decision, because it’s easy to get work doing business cards and annual reports, but it just wasn’t fulfilling anything in me. Now I get to do lettering and doodly layout work for magazines, films and websites!
2. Where do you find your inspirations?
I’m very inspired by things I remember from my childhood, like my Nana’s furniture, frames, and art. I also love fashion and typography, and like to interpret things through my own hand. I also find myself very stimulated by academic things like feminism, physics and biology.
3. You have another blog, the Axis of Fat. Can you give us a beginner’s guide to what Fat Acceptance is?
The Fat Acceptance movement is about challenging people’s conception of fat people as lazy, incompetent and slobby (or any other number of really negative connotations). Societal shaming of fat people (to lose weight, to make themselves invisible) is a horrible and dehumanising thing, and it’s one of the reasons why I am so passionate about Fat Acceptance (or, FA). On an individual level, I like to think of FA as accepting yourself as a valid human being with the same human rights as other people, because so many fat people intuitively negate and deny themselves just because they are “bad” (according to society, the government and the media) and that often leads to problems that extend well beyond the “issue” of fatness (because mental health is health too!)
Many people accuse me of being “pro fat” when that is completely incorrect. I’m actually pro-human being, whatever one’s natural body shape. I don’t believe a fat woman should be shamed, nor do I believe a slim woman should be shamed. Bodies will find their own natural weight – there are many fat people who exercise regularly and eat healthfully, just as there are many slim people who do not exercise regularly or eat healthfully. I believe all human beings should exercise their self awareness and listen to their bodies!
4. What do you wear/do to make yourself feel good?
I love to dress up, and I have worn any number of ridiculous outfits to social engagements! This is part of my whole “fancy lady” ethos. I have observed that society wants to make fat people invisible, and when I become “fancy” I become incredibly visible! Clothes, shoes, hair, makeup and accessories all form part of my dressing up, and I honestly can’t say I’ve ever received flack for it. For me, it’s empowering and fun to be ridiculous!
5. How would you define pretty?
I think prettiness is about integrity, self awareness and self expression, and it doesn’t have to be an obvious thing. Some people have a slow, bubbling prettiness and their shyness or introversion add to their beauty. Other people have a massive, ball-busting aura of fabulosity, and it’s just as attractive!
We’ve talked before about Roller Derby, and how fantastic the girls who do it are. We’ve told you to buy your tickets. Now we’d like to offer some suggestions as to how you should dress for the event on September 19. Obviously, you want to be comfortable. It’s licensed, so you may be drinking beer, but then you will have to negotiate portaloos. You may be sitting on the ground or on bleachers, so you don’t want anything too tight. There are many many attractive people in attendance who you may wish to try and pick up, so you have to dress to impress as well – if you’re in to that sort of thing. And then there’s the really important issue – do you support Smash Malice or Brutal Pagaent???
I’ve had a play around on Polyvore today, so let me offer up some suggestions for each team supporter:
Unemployment is taking a severe toll on my credit card. Recently I have bought things from:
Alight.com: they ship to NZ and charge a rate based on how much you spend. The wrap dress I bought in a non stretchy fabric was too small (I was pushing it with the sizing) but it looks fantastic on Megan, the stretchy bright red dress is perhaps a tiny bit clingy but still hott, and the brown cotton embroidered dress was perfect in Vanuatu. I adored wearing it, although it’s maybe a tiny bit short for me usually to wear without tights. Alight takes about a week to ship to NZ, and their dresses are generally available in lots of different colours. They’re not cutting edge fashion, and I don’t think they’re the greatest quality ever, but if you shop their sale section, you’ll do well.
SWAK Designs: I have three words that should set your fat antipodean hearts aflame: FREE SHIPPING WORLD WIDE. And it only took about ten days too! I got this dress in grey, and now I want it in all the other colours. The edges roll up a little, but it is divinely comfortable, perfect for travelling in, and looks great with my next thing…
We Love Color: Plus size tights in FIFTY ONE COLOURS! And they’re actually plus size! As a great big calunkingly tall person with a large proportion of her weight in her stomach, I am amazed. I finally got my tights today (turns out the post office has stopped delivering to my letterbox for the past month – long story) and oh my god, I am in heaven. I haven’t tried on my footed tights yet, but I’m currently wearing Kelly Green footless tights, and the top of them is on top of my belly, just underneath my bra. There ain’t no way these suckers are going to roll down, and the crotch is where it should be. I am in love. I have them in three colours now and will probably order more just as soon as I get a job. I used the code RUNWAY for free shipping to “Australia” – saving myself the flat rate of $15US. Seriously, so much love.
You know by now that I’m totally and utterly obsessed with Mad Men, and my current style philosophy is “What Would Joan Wear?”. So imagine my glee when I discovered that as part of the build-up to series three they’ve created a little Flash game where you can create yourself an avatar in their style. That’s a fun way to spend five minutes. Now let’s see your pics in the comments please.
(With apologies to The Cure. And also anyone else who doesn’t approve of that term. But oh well.)
Hey all my ladies with the curves, have you guys been to Featherston Street lately? Petone used to be the best place for plus-size shopping, but now town is totally Curve-ville.
There’s Zebrano‘s designer range (their “casual” store on Johnson Street is just around the corner), where you can fork out $400 for a Moss singlet, and be happy that Trelise Cooper’s plus-size range only goes up to a 20, because god forbid the real fattys should have at it. But seriously, they do have some lovely lovely things, and an amazing selection of ball dresses. But you’re going to pay through the nose there – expect nothing under $200 unless you hit their sales racks, which are past season and leftover stock and in extremely limited ranges of sizes.
There’s Platform Clothing which I didn’t go into today, whose clothes have always seemed a little bit boxy to me, but perhaps there’s something in there for you. These dresses look very cute. But again, not cheap.
Then there’s The Carpenter’s Daughter which is full of a riot of amazing jewel colours and textures. I lusted so so much for a frock coat in pink velvet, but at $550 I had to step away and instead tried on a huge selection of dresses in purples and greens and peacocks. Oh it was a glorious experience. And an expensive one. And if you come to my birthday drinks on Friday at Hawthorn Lounge, you’ll get to see the results. It’s totally what Joan Would Do.
It’s not on Featherston Street, but Farmers on Lambton Quay has a good range of plus-size clothes as well. They have a “designer” range, which means they have stuff for like $100 an item, which is kind of wrong in my opinion, but their Wild Child range can be pretty good and under $50 and is also 30% off right now.
And finally, although it’s not even a real place but rather the internets, I have to brag about how I finally found a dress that has SLEEVES! And POCKETS! And actually COMES DOWN TO MY KNEES! Oh it’s so exciting – so check out the_curvy_chick on trademe or her online store Sheer Curves - which actually had the dress I bought for $20 cheaper. And while we’re recommending online places, I’ve heard very good things about Bella Chic, although I have yet to purchase anything from there yet, but like Sheer Curves, they stock Igigi dresses and you might get a better deal than direct purchase because of changing exchange rates, etc.
We’d like to introduce a new feature here on PPP, which is all about you. If you’ll allow us to misquote Chicago for a minute – “you’re the meaning in our lives, you’re our inspiration”. So we want to know what you’re wearing. We get blasted by too many pictures of too many models wearing unrealistic clothing every day, so we’d like to keep it real. Who you are, and what you wear is what we care about. Therefore we’d love you to email us – jo@prettyprettypretty.com with a picture or a link to you wearing your favourite outfit, and a bit about what you’re wearing and why you like it. Okay? Awesome. I’ll start.
So in this picture, I am wearing:
Sequinned shrug from Ezibuy: I like that this makes me into a human discoball – it’s fun riding in a cab in the sunshine in this, but because it’s not lined, it does irritate my arms. If I’m smart I will wear a barrier cream under it, but if I’m not, then I end up with red itchiness. So that’s not ideal.
The bronze-coloured belt is also from Ezibuy. I like wearing it to bring out my waist – even if I make my waist very high up in it. I also like how thick and chunky it is – to me it’s like strapping on superhero armour. It makes me tough and hot.
What you think is a dress is actually a dress from Farmers that is a size too small for me and therefore way too short, with a skirt from Farmers that is too big and stupid-mid calf length over the top of it, pulled up to right under the boobs. That way it’s a perfect length!
My red bra is from Lane Bryant in New York. It’s padded (although I have taken out the airbags), deeply plunged, and very hot. It is my party bra, and I don’t care if it looks tacky that it shows. I’m tacky.
My necklace is amber beads that I stole from my mother’s jewellary box, which I think she stole from her mother. Sometimes I wear more over-the-top jewellary with this outfit, but apparently that night I was trying to be more subtle.
My makeup and hair in this photo were done by Amy in a Mad Men inspired style. I’m not normally this glam-looking. And if I look grumpy in the photo, well it was Election Night and we lost to the Dark Side.
This site is about the things that we like that make us look good, smell good and feel good. We will never tell you what you have to wear, or try to make you feel bad about yourself or inadequate. We have no problems buying supermarket-level products, but do have a preference for brands that have ethical considerations.